What they are looking for
These are the reasons why I'm looking for a surrogate: 2016 - Belated ovum @ 8 weeks 2017 - loss at 20 weeks due to incompetent cervix 2018 - went full term but lost our baby @ 3 weeks old due to CDH 2019 - Miscarriage @ 8 weeks. This would be the last time we've conceived naturally. 2020 - diagnosed with secondary infertility. 2021 - started IVF 2022 - lost our IVF baby at 20 weeks [removed] - did 3 more transfer with no success [removed] PGT tested embroyos waiting to match with a surrogate
Personal message
Dear Potential Surrogate We hope this letter finds you well, and we want to express our heartfelt gratitude for considering this incredible journey alongside us. We have dreamed of expanding our family, of holding our precious child in our arms, and of creating a haven of love and warmth. Your willingness to explore this path with us fills us with hope and renewed determination. Our journey thus far has been one of both joy and heartache. In 2016, we experienced a belated ovum loss at 8 weeks, and in 2017, our hopes were shattered with a loss at 20 weeks due to an incompetent cervix. In 2018, we welcomed a child, only to say goodbye after three short weeks due to CDH. In 2019, another miscarriage at 8 weeks marked the end of our natural conceptions. The year 2020 brought the diagnosis of secondary infertility, leaving us with a deep ache and questions we yearned to answer. With every setback, we found strength in each other and an unshakable belief that our family was meant to grow. The journey led us to IVF in 2021, a path we tread with both hope and trepidation. While 2022 started with the promise of new beginnings, we were met with another loss at 20 weeks. Our determination never wavered, and through 2022 and 2023, we embarked on three more transfers, each with no success. Now, in 2023, we stand before the crossroads, holding onto eleven PGT-tested embryos that hold the dreams we've woven over the years. As we read your profile, we are humbled by your courage and your willingness to stand beside us on this journey. Your compassion has the potential to heal the wounds of the past and open the doors to the beautiful future we so eagerly envision. We yearn for the day we can share our story with our child, telling them about the incredible woman who carried them into our lives. Your role in this journey is profound, and we would be honored to have you as our partner in creating the miracle of life. We invite you to learn more about us, our hopes, and our dreams on our website, [removed] There, you'll find glimpses of the love that permeates every corner of our lives and the space where our child will find unconditional love and unwavering support. Thank you for considering us, for allowing us to dream again, and for the possibility of completing our family. We believe in the power of destiny and connection, and we can't help but feel that you are an integral part of ours. With heartfelt gratitude and hope, T&C
