Sindy W***
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About the intended parents
My husband and I are highschool sweethearts; we've been married for almost 5 years, but together for almost 16 years. We are both professionals that work hard, but our love for family always comes first.
What they are looking for
We have an amazing 2.5 year old daughter and are looking to complete our family. I had severe pre-eclampsia with our daughter and had to have an emergency c-section at 32 weeks. Our 3.2 lb girl spent 1 month in the NICU but luckily, she is perfectly healthy. We always knew we wanted at least 2 kids and didn't hesitate to try again. We were expecting a baby boy on March 16, 2011. Because of my history of pre-eclampsia, I was being monitored very closely during this pregnancy. But on January 19, at exactly 32 weeks, I had a placental abruption and we lost our son. I had massive internal bleeding and my blood clotting factors failed. I was about an hour away from bleeding to death. My OB has told us that we would be crazy to try again. We will always have a special place in our hearts for the son that we lost. But we feel that we still have so much more love to give and want to complete our family with the help of a surrogate.
Personal message
Dear Surrogate, Thank you for having the courage and kindness to offer this amazing gift of hope. When we lost our son and then were told we could not have another child on our own, our grief and devastation were overwhelming. We are working through the grief of losing our son with the help of a support group and the support of our family and friends. And we are finding hope to be able to complete our family through surrogacy. Our son came into our lives for only a short while, but we believe he served a great purpose. He strengthened his mommy and daddy's relationship, he made us realize how fortunate we are to have his sister and how close we were to losing her, and he taught us not to take anything for granted. In time, we believe we will be able to heal from the loss of our son and be able to remember him with smiles rather than tears. But even when our daughter is 20, we will still wish she had a sibling. We have planned our entire future around having at least 2 kids (my husband has always wanted 4) and it would mean the world to us if we can make that dream a reality. Thank you for giving us the gift of hope of being able to complete our family, Sindy & Sam