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Anita , Female South African Surrogate Mother From South Africa

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Date Registered: 24 Oct 2020 Last Modified: 24 Oct 2020 Last Signed In: 03 Nov 2020
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Brief Summary Of The Surrogate Mother

I\'am a 31 year old Female South African national from Nelspruit in South Africa, I would like to be a Surrogate Mother for Heterosexual , Gay , Lesbian , Single Woman,Single Man Couples. I have Light Brown hair and Green Eyes With 13-16 Years Of Education. I currently have a passport and I am willing to travel anywhere in the world.

Contact Information For This Surrogate Mother

Name: Anita
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City: Nelspruit
Region: Mpumalanga
Country: South Africa

Surrogate Mother Information

Nationality: South African
Race: Caucasian
Age: 31
Gender: Female
I Am A Smoker: No
I Would Like To Be A: Surrogate Mother
Have Been A Surrogate Mother:: No
Years Of Education: 13-16 Years
My Height Is: 173 cm
My Weight Is: 135 Lbs
My Health Is: Excellent
My Blood Type Is: O
My Marital Status Is: Divorced
Number Of Children I Have Is: 2
I Would Consider Couples Of: Heterosexual Couple, Gay Couple, Lesbian Couple, Single Woman, Single Man
I Am Willing To Travel: Yes
I Have A Passport: Yes
My Hair Colour Is: Light Brown
My Eye Colour Is: Green
My Health Is: Excellent

The Reasons I Want To Be A Surrogate Mother:

I am a mother of 2 children. A Girl of nine years and a boy of 20 months. Being able to help another couple who is unable to have a child. Idonít think itís fair that there are people having children when they canít care for them in any way. I have the ability to bear children and wish to share it with someone who can care for a child in every which way. A child is a precious gift and I would greatly appreciate being able to put one in someoneís arms to love.

Description Of Myself:

I am committed to being the most present, loving and authentic human being I know how to be and that in my role as a mom, that commitment is the hardest one to fulfill. I love being a mom, and that it is the most important part of my life, and the one that fills me up with the most love, joy, purpose and happiness. Most of the time I am fun-loving, playful, creative and fully engaged. To be honest, itís taught me some of my less-pleasant traits Ė like having high expectations and that itís a constant learning process. I am grateful every day for every moment that I get to be a mom and that my children are loved beyond words. And that the fabric of my life is so much richer, vibrant and alive because of it.

My Letter To You:

Now that we are officially in the matching process, I decided that I should write a letter to our intended parents IPs just as a starting point for my side of our relationship. They may or may not ever read it, but in case they ever do, ďHey guys! Hereís what I felt about you before I knew you were you!Ē Hello IPs! We havenít met, but weíre looking for each other already. Weíre about to embark on a great adventure that will knit our lives together intimately, at least for a time, and we donít even know each otherís names! To me, you are Intended Parents, or IPs. To you, I am a Gestational Surrogate, Gestational Carrier or simply the Surrogate. What a strange way to begin such a relationship! Though I donít yet know you, I am pretty sure that having to have me around wasnít an original part of your family plans. I imagine your hopes and dreams have had to change and evolve much to lead you to this point. For that, I want you to know, that I think youíre incredibly courageous people and I admire your strength and resolve. I also want you to know that I understand what incredible trust you are placing in me and I do not take at lightly. Please be assured that I did not undertake this idea on a whim. It has come with the passage of time, the gathering of information, much discussion and even more prayer. While there has been a lot of focus on me throughout the process my health, my thoughts, my fears, my familyís role, etc I want you to know that we have never once lost track of you. You are why I am here! Without you, I wouldnít be going on this journey. Thank you for giving me this gift of an incredible opportunity. I know youíll probably wonder and worry a lot about me. How can you know if I am eating right, sleeping enough, being active but not too active? How can you be sure I am taking my prenatal vitamins, that Iím avoiding too much coffee, or that I wonít be exposed to something I shouldnít be? Can you be sure that on delivery day, weíll all be on the same page medically? Can you rest assured that I will carry your child with as much care as my own? How will you know that I will be as communicative as youíd want? The answer to all those questions is you canít know and you canít be sure, you just have to trust me. I will do the same for you. I will trust that youíll understand my needs and my judgment, just as I will do for you. At the end of this adventure, I hope we can look back on the time where you were just IPs and I was just the surrogate and laugh because it seems so silly to have not always known and cared for one another. Hereís to our journey! Lets go on an adventure!


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